Saturday, 10 March 2012

When LOVE become expensive

When love become expensive , if you get what  i mean . 


Yes , in love is wonderful . But but , wait , i believe that love is wonderful only if money is not a matter in love . Nowadays , i realized that a lot of my friend said that they want to earn and have a lot of money , only they want to be in a relationship . But the thing is , when you found someone that you love , you cannot just don't care about it just because you dont have money and you are poor . If you miss that right person , there's no turn back and there's no second chance . The thing is , i believe that one who truly love someone will be ready to be together with the one she / he love even though his /her bf/gf is in hard times. Money cannot buy happiness . No matter how much money you have , you cant  buy true love . 


Okay , i may not be the right person to teach you all about love , but i am here just to express my view and personal opinion . Nowadays , i noticed that love is not as sincere as last time anymore . Now , most of the girl wish to have a rich boyfriend . They will try to find some guy who are working and rich to be their boyfriend . A student , a poor / average income guy , you will always lose . Let say a guy who drive a proton car , a student that work part time with average income , and a guy who drive Honda , who have a job with high income . Who will most of the girl choose ? For sure is the guy who drive a Honda and have a job with high income la . That guy can buy girl what they want , they can buy Ipad , Blackberry for their girlfriend . But at last , the thing is , is the girl love you , or love your money . The worst scenario i heard before from my friend is a guy give a girl a blackberry even before they start a relationship , the girl accept it but she not together with the guy , yet she keep the blackberry . I think that it is too over . So yea , money do matter in chasing a girl most of the time . It's like you got to insert money into someone's heart to win their heart and get their love.  Value , attitude , kind-hearted , nah , it is not important anymore. 







So , if you are lucky and get in a relationship with a girl , for your first date , to be a gentlemen , you should pay for the meal . But the meal or expenses after that should be AA , as in you pay for your bill , and your partner pay for his or her bill. Yea , of course you can pay for your another half , but not always . While your another half also should pay for you sometime , so you both didn't owe each other as in you both pay for each other . But from what i hear from my friend , there are some girl who always want their boyfriend to pay for their meal and expenses . If you got this kind of partner , you better stop in love with them , ask them  whether they love your money or you , because it will slowly become a burden for you. This doesn't apply for girl only , same goes to guy who always use girl money . Yea , i know you will say i got the money , i want to give the money to who , then i give la , but think properly  , you will just slowly spoiled your girlfriend / boyfriend.Oh yeah , and if during valentine's day , you didn't give your girlfriend a valentine's gift , there it goes , world war four will happen , that's will be the end of your world. The thing is , if you love someone , you can give something to that person and celebrate on any days , not only during valentine's day and anniversary day. So , at the end , just to please the girlfriend , the boyfriend got to spend a lot and make their wallet bleed , and the girlfriend just eat there happily . That's when love become expensive.  


That's my say , so choose yourself . Here's the option: 




Money or love 

For me , i will choose the option as below : 

Love more than money ,because you can't buy love and happiness .

Please noted that this post is just some random thought of mine , and it is not applicable to all the girl in the world , and it is only applicable to those who are still dating. Sorry if my post offended you.

And to all the people who are independent and use their own money , continue being awesome and amazing just like that ! You got my respect ! 

Random thought by JayrenTheZompire,
Thanks for reading.

21 comments:

  1. hmm nice thoughts here, but if we can afford it, no harm being the gentlemen and belanja'ing our partner all the time. It's just food XD ..

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  2. Isaac : Not apply to you , you married edy sure need money . haha . And i not just say about the food la , expenses as well . It's not about being gentlemen and belanja people or not . hehe

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  3. I won't buy iPad or Blackberry for the partner, that's just ridiculous. Haha!

    Give & Take ;)

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  4. Errmm, in a relationship ofc will choose love more than money. but if things come to marriage, we girls should think rationally already. Not only think about love, we have to think whether the guy can 'afford' for a family or not. If cnt, what for I get married with him right? Yes, marriage is all talking about love, but money also an important issue. Coz marriage is once in life. We dont hope that we chose the wrong person and get ourselves suffer also right? hmmm, just my opinion laa. lol.

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  5. @kenwooi : Yeah ! I will not buy Ipad or blackberry for my girlfriend too . Totally agree with you . Give and take ! =D

    @nicccchang : Yea , of course marriage need money to afford the family. And money is importnat in marriage . But what i'm saying here is relationship only , is not applicable to marriage . Totally agree with your opinion . Love more than money. =D

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  6. Yayyyy! In a relationship, just want peace, dont make it complicated. more than enuf. ahahahah!

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  7. I don't want to have a rich bf. Rich bf only wants sexy time #true story

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  8. got some girls materialistic gila until they wed or after wedding also I think. LOLOL!

    Guys have to be smart in choosing partners also lah. I still find guys who buy girls expensive items like phones and iPad very ridiculous to 'chase' the girl. :P

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  9. nicccchang: Yes , totally agree with you yo ! =D

    Melmonica: Good good . haha =D

    Qi Tyng : yea whey , ridiculous la . haha. Those materialistic girl watch too much fairytale dy la . XD

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  10. I agree with you!!! Money should never enter the equation when it comes to love. It is just a minor subset, not the entire Venn diagram :D

    For those who believe that you will only have love if you have money, I feel really sorry for them :(

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  11. Choulyin : Yea , totally agree with you ! Thanks ! =D

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  12. Both sides have to just know what's the limit. But totally agree with you there.

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  13. Lol.... Jayren, you've no idea what those bitches can gone crazier than blackbery and ipads. I heard stories about the "trading game" it's more on money trade for sex -___- than money >love

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  14. Carina : You certainly know it best huh . =p That's scary , i never know that . =S

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  15. practically, the world needs money and couples often quarrel because of money, marriages become broken because of money :( how sad

    Latest: Chinese Pastry

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  16. Fish : Totally agree with you ! But if really love each other , then i dont think money will be a problem . Marriage sure need money , that 1 i understand . =D

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  17. For me, LOVE is definitely > MONEY. Without love, you can't do anything, but with love, its different. We will work hard to get money! =P

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  18. Xue Ren : Totally agree with you ! =D

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